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Saturday, January 16, 2010
My POV
Hi all
Those who know me well should know that I just returned back to my Hougang home not long ago. Well, I want to share with all of my peeps out there how's it like to stay outside and how different it is as compared to staying in my own home.
Well I moved to my brother's home few months back. The feeling is different in the aspect that over there I feel that I am independent. well, my aunt and her children stay there too, they belong to one family. And my brother and his wife one family.. Then that left me as the remainder. which explains why i mostly alone at home on Sundays. yea but at least i feel happier there. not because i do not need to do any household chores there.
the type of household chores is the same as those i have to do at my own home. in fact more at my brother's home. the bed i sleep on over my brother home is not as comfortable as compared to my own. but why i have sound sleep during my stay over there. in fact i have to wake up earlier (5.45am) there because i have to share the toilet with the other 2 kids. and the journey to office is further. whenever i return i got to clear 2 dogs' shits and clean the floor whenever i m free.
But no matter what i always have a peaceful sleep throughout the night. and i m truly happy when i am there. the only bad point i think is most probably that I do not have a proper home cooked meal over there. but when i return back to Hougang, although i have everything better in all aspects, including home cooked meal, i do not feel happier. because i feel that my family don't regard like family member. to me, they are like treating me more of maid. they never complain anything because they do not want me to move out again. and in depth they feel that during the times i stay out make them lose their face or reputation towards our relatives. to our relatives it may seems that my parents are not a set of good parents because 2 out of their 3 children moved out before.
to our own parents they feel that they themselves are very good set of parents, because they slogged so hard in so many years to support 3 of us to adulthood. they provide us with all good materials. but they failed to realise that these are not all what we want. Money is not everything. the results is very clear cut: 2 of us are not very rich but we are very independent and contented. but left 1 of us: he is very rich but he is never happy and he never exactly has a life. all these, FOR WHAT? why create so much troubles. my view is very simple: each and everyone of us should know what to do and what not to do. and not leave everything to my parents especially when they are so old already.
well this is my point of view. feel free to comment otherwise skip it.
Those who know me well should know that I just returned back to my Hougang home not long ago. Well, I want to share with all of my peeps out there how's it like to stay outside and how different it is as compared to staying in my own home.
Well I moved to my brother's home few months back. The feeling is different in the aspect that over there I feel that I am independent. well, my aunt and her children stay there too, they belong to one family. And my brother and his wife one family.. Then that left me as the remainder. which explains why i mostly alone at home on Sundays. yea but at least i feel happier there. not because i do not need to do any household chores there.
the type of household chores is the same as those i have to do at my own home. in fact more at my brother's home. the bed i sleep on over my brother home is not as comfortable as compared to my own. but why i have sound sleep during my stay over there. in fact i have to wake up earlier (5.45am) there because i have to share the toilet with the other 2 kids. and the journey to office is further. whenever i return i got to clear 2 dogs' shits and clean the floor whenever i m free.
But no matter what i always have a peaceful sleep throughout the night. and i m truly happy when i am there. the only bad point i think is most probably that I do not have a proper home cooked meal over there. but when i return back to Hougang, although i have everything better in all aspects, including home cooked meal, i do not feel happier. because i feel that my family don't regard like family member. to me, they are like treating me more of maid. they never complain anything because they do not want me to move out again. and in depth they feel that during the times i stay out make them lose their face or reputation towards our relatives. to our relatives it may seems that my parents are not a set of good parents because 2 out of their 3 children moved out before.
to our own parents they feel that they themselves are very good set of parents, because they slogged so hard in so many years to support 3 of us to adulthood. they provide us with all good materials. but they failed to realise that these are not all what we want. Money is not everything. the results is very clear cut: 2 of us are not very rich but we are very independent and contented. but left 1 of us: he is very rich but he is never happy and he never exactly has a life. all these, FOR WHAT? why create so much troubles. my view is very simple: each and everyone of us should know what to do and what not to do. and not leave everything to my parents especially when they are so old already.
well this is my point of view. feel free to comment otherwise skip it.
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Merry Christmas!!!
Hi Guys!!!!
Just wanna say this to you all......................
Just wanna say this to you all......................
Merry X'mas everyone! Have a blessed 2010 ahead!
Love,
Jaren =)
Love,
Jaren =)
Thursday, October 01, 2009
When Watching Vcds turn into a duty more than a Passion.....
Been trying to finish up watching dramas and movies. In the past i can watch continuously for several days and nights because I wanted to finish up the drama before i can totally rest my mind otherwise i will keep thinking keep dreaming about the show.
That, is what i called Passion and interest.
But recently I watch for a few hours and I will start feeling tired and sleepy. Initially, I thought it's because I'm getting older, concentration span getting shorted. But no leh.. i used to be very tired too yet for the sake of the show i am able to stay through the night.
THEN, it dawned to me that I might be watching the show because I need to check if the discs are spoilt or I need to watch it soon for me to return to other people.
Seriously, where has the passion of watching shows gone to? Has it disappeared just like my Green Tea mooncakes with Melon Seeds?
FYI, the last show which I can't stop watching is Charmed Season 1 to 8 which I paid close to $700 for it.
That, is what i called Passion and interest.
But recently I watch for a few hours and I will start feeling tired and sleepy. Initially, I thought it's because I'm getting older, concentration span getting shorted. But no leh.. i used to be very tired too yet for the sake of the show i am able to stay through the night.
THEN, it dawned to me that I might be watching the show because I need to check if the discs are spoilt or I need to watch it soon for me to return to other people.
Seriously, where has the passion of watching shows gone to? Has it disappeared just like my Green Tea mooncakes with Melon Seeds?
FYI, the last show which I can't stop watching is Charmed Season 1 to 8 which I paid close to $700 for it.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Pictures!
Haha... Self Made Wedding Photo (Me & Kelvin Cheng) :P
Me (11/09/09's Outing) 
Ming Han & Yusuf (11/09/09's Outing)
Hong Jin & Wee Siang (11/09/09's Outing)
Stan & Hong Jin (11/09/09's Outing)
ROM bouquet of rose with pearls. Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Pictures!
Nerdy Me =D 
OCC Dinner on 14th August 2009 (From Left: Zhen Song, Me, Niki, June)
My BIrthday surprise from Shu hua (Vancouver) & Stanley (Singapore) :DMonday, September 14, 2009
14th September
Today went to work as usual met hiccups here n there. Rcv a book on living with limitations from niki. Started reading rather meaningful. Went for tuition. Learnt that the maid went to the police somehow and she gotta stay working. for us until her debts are cleared. Meanwhile we still do as much as we can me folding n keeping my clothes, washing my shoes n bottles. It may seems simple but doing them after a long day say, 9pm can kill. Argh!!!
To make things worst, Blogger isn't allowing me to upload fotos! There are so much I want to show u guys! :(
To make things worst, Blogger isn't allowing me to upload fotos! There are so much I want to show u guys! :(
13th september
Hmm today I feel super accomplished. Y? Let me tell you:
- woke up to tidy my room n shoe rack, changed bedsheet, dry the bedsheet, heat up the previous night's dinner n eat it, watch "failure dog" drama n have a long nap. Then came the climax of the day!!!!
- went to tampines to meet stan to finish up our Project "ASS"!
First he was late cos he was slping -.- rite? Den some kid spilled a whole cup of iced milo on my jeans n neckermann sandals, and I can't go hm straight cos haven't start on the project yet. In the end, spent 2hrs plus doing it. Haish. Reached home at 10pm to realise there is a blanket hanging out of my window only to realise my maid climb out of the window by tying her blanket to my bed frame. And and and... this isn't the first time. Suay right!!!
- not to mention I almost have the chance to savour the taste of delicious international buffet of not for.... haish
Nevertheless, ALL WELLS SHALL BE WELL... in GOD'S CARE AMEN!
- woke up to tidy my room n shoe rack, changed bedsheet, dry the bedsheet, heat up the previous night's dinner n eat it, watch "failure dog" drama n have a long nap. Then came the climax of the day!!!!
- went to tampines to meet stan to finish up our Project "ASS"!
First he was late cos he was slping -.- rite? Den some kid spilled a whole cup of iced milo on my jeans n neckermann sandals, and I can't go hm straight cos haven't start on the project yet. In the end, spent 2hrs plus doing it. Haish. Reached home at 10pm to realise there is a blanket hanging out of my window only to realise my maid climb out of the window by tying her blanket to my bed frame. And and and... this isn't the first time. Suay right!!!
- not to mention I almost have the chance to savour the taste of delicious international buffet of not for.... haish
Nevertheless, ALL WELLS SHALL BE WELL... in GOD'S CARE AMEN!
12th september
Today is Wei shan's birthday! Happy 22nd Wei shan:) !
- Today's gonna b a v bz day cos gotta rush to office before 11 to help out in the prayer session.
- after which is go bk hm n rest before going to sunset grill to witness ppl being tortured alive by the level 30 chicken wings while I enjoy my cheesy fries WHahaha!
Omg u shud c the expressions on the sufferers' faces damn hilarious can!! Lol they are mainly kenji, ah song, Mandy n Mr Cheng. Of which, ah song facial expression is the most comical of all!
- later in the nite join my big bro n my SIS in law in Lunar. Trust me, it wasn't fun... so I left for home cos I can't keep yawning while i was there. U guys dint c wrongly my big bro brought me to clubbing lol! Cool right? ;)
So. after I reached hm I went to bed shortly
- Today's gonna b a v bz day cos gotta rush to office before 11 to help out in the prayer session.
- after which is go bk hm n rest before going to sunset grill to witness ppl being tortured alive by the level 30 chicken wings while I enjoy my cheesy fries WHahaha!
Omg u shud c the expressions on the sufferers' faces damn hilarious can!! Lol they are mainly kenji, ah song, Mandy n Mr Cheng. Of which, ah song facial expression is the most comical of all!
- later in the nite join my big bro n my SIS in law in Lunar. Trust me, it wasn't fun... so I left for home cos I can't keep yawning while i was there. U guys dint c wrongly my big bro brought me to clubbing lol! Cool right? ;)
So. after I reached hm I went to bed shortly
Friday, September 11, 2009
22 Years old le
Hi all... just turned 22 years old! hahahaa!!
hmmm... let me think... my 21st year passed rather quickly. too fast for me to realise what was happening...
this year didnt plan much celebrations. and it happen to be my bro's rom too.. so mostly was busying around the island for his ceremony. yea. kinda bored actually.
Finally it's a celebration without any involvement of any alcohol.. hahaa...
shu hua and stanley gave me a surprise on the day before my birthday.. real touched and surprised. reali... hahaa... shall upload and show u guys. :D
hmmm... let me think... my 21st year passed rather quickly. too fast for me to realise what was happening...
this year didnt plan much celebrations. and it happen to be my bro's rom too.. so mostly was busying around the island for his ceremony. yea. kinda bored actually.
Finally it's a celebration without any involvement of any alcohol.. hahaa...
shu hua and stanley gave me a surprise on the day before my birthday.. real touched and surprised. reali... hahaa... shall upload and show u guys. :D
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